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Tuesday 9 February 2016

#BlogTour The Gazillionaire and the Virgin - Coming Clean About Kink by @LisabetSarai #BDSM

Trust can’t be bought — it has to be earned

Coming Clean About Kink
      Guest Post By Lisabet Sarai

In my new BDSM erotic romance, The Gazillionaire and the Virgin, the hero Theo is a closet Dom—quite literally. Stored on a shelf above the rod supporting his clothing, he hides a vast collection of BDSM porn. Since puberty he’s been fascinated by bondage, especially shibari, and other kinky practices, but he has never shared his fantasies of dominance with anyone. When Rachel accidentally discovers his stash of magazines, photos and videos, Theo is mortified. They’re already lovers at that point, but he still doesn’t want her to know about his perverse desires.

Rachel is more amused than shocked by the revelation. Still, she doesn’t admit her own long-standing yearning for submission. She allows Theo to believe he is the first person to dominate her. He takes pride in the notion that he has shown her who she really is. It’s a serious blow when he learns this isn’t strictly true.

Even in the post-FSOG era, when most people are at least superficially aware of BDSM, it’s hard to come clean about your kinky desires. There’s a significant chance your partner will be horrified or disgusted. Even if your mate is tolerant of your interest in power exchange, he or she may not share your preferences. The resulting disappointment and frustration can tear a relationship apart. It seems easier to keep your mouth shut and be content with your fantasies.

If you do find a complementary partner, though, there’s no greater thrill than sharing your filthy, twisted fantasies with someone who can fully appreciate them—and perhaps turn them into reality. I’ve written many scenes in which a Dom “forces” a sub to admit she wants to be bound, beaten or sodomized. The act of confession itself is a huge turn-on for me. It takes courage and trust to open oneself this way. At the same time, there’s the kick of anticipation in naming the dirty things you crave.

I believe BDSM demands more honesty and courage than vanilla relationships. No matter how many copies of mommy porn people buy, kink still violates society’s norms. Admitting you want to break those taboos takes guts—but with the right person, it’s more than worth the risk.

~ ~ ~ Giveaway ~ ~ ~

This post is part of my Gazillionaire and Virgin blog tour, running from February 1st to 15th. Leave me a comment on this post, including your email address, and I’ll enter you to win a $50 bookstore gift certificate (first prize) or a print copy of the new book (second prize). Visit all the stops for more chances to win. You’ll find the full list here:

The Gazillionaire and the Virgin
By Lisabet Sarai

Excessica, 2016
Contemporary BDSM erotic romance (Five flames)
Approximately 62,000 words, 240 pages in print
HEA ending


When Silicon Valley entrepreneur Rachel Zelinsky meets reclusive genius Theo Moore, she finds him strangely compelling. Theo is both arrogant and socially awkward, but he has an aura of power that speaks to Rachel’s carefully-hidden submissive side. Disturbed and aroused, she tries to focus on her original objective—a deal to incorporate his Artificial Intelligence software into her company’s popular virtual world. Rachel’s not a woman who lets pleasure interfere with business, but for some reason, she can’t resist Theo’s geeky appeal.

Theo Moore can’t be bought. His past battles with poverty make him deeply suspicious of the billionaire CEO. Still, with her voluptuous curves and brilliant mind, Rachel embodies his ultimate sexual fantasy. Too bad his knowledge about sex derives from extensive research and a stash of kinky porn rather than real-world experience.

That doesn’t bother Rachel, however. In his bed—in his arms—in his bonds—she discovers the bliss of total surrender. Rachel may be Theo’s first lover, but Theo is Rachel’s first true Master—and the first man to truly touch her heart. It seems that love may harmonize their differing goals and values, until Rachel’s unwitting violation of Theo’s trust threatens to tear them apart forever.


“Lisabet Sarai writes the most beautiful erotic prose. Her stories tease at the senses and transport you to a world of sexual pleasure.” ~ Desiree Holt, queen of BDSM erotic romance and author of Forward Pass

"I’ve always been a fan—Lisabet Sarai's erotic fiction is certain to captivate, dominate, and leave readers begging for more." ~ Alison Tyler, best-selling author of erotic BDSM memoirs Dark Secret Love and Even Deeper.

(Print coming soon!)

X Rated Excerpt (Theo)

I nearly step on her.

“Rachel! What the—”

She sits cross-legged on the carpet, half-inside my clothes closet, wearing one of my dress shirts, unbuttoned, over her nakedness. Glossy magazines are scattered around her, their covers awash with female flesh—stripped, blindfolded, gagged, clamped, twisted into impossible positions, limbs wrapped in rope or leather, scarlet nipples bulging and sore, eyes full of terror and devotion. One of the publications lies in her lap, open to the Technicolor image of a woman strapped to a padded horse, with some anonymous hand buried to the wrist in her stretched asshole.

Oh God, no! I want to sink through the floor with shame. At the same time, my cock is like stone. “Rachel—um—it’s not what you think…”

She gazes up at me with a half-smile. “Oh? Really?” Her voice is mild. She sounds amused rather than shocked as she gestures at the masses of porn surrounding her. “Are you trying to tell me these aren’t yours?”

“Well—um—not exactly…”

“Quite a collection.” As she rolls onto her hip then rises to a kneel, she gives me an appraising look. “I’m impressed.”

“You’re not—not—disgusted?” I’m frozen in place, transfixed by embarrassment and lust. Her lush breasts jiggle as she approaches, still on her knees. I’m so hard it hurts.

“Not at all. This explains quite a lot.” She’s at my feet now, her chin tilted up so she can meet my eyes. Her tawny nipples peek out from the gap in my shirt. Coppery curls frame her angel’s face. “I finally understand, Theo.”

She purses her lips to blow a stream of hot air over my aching erection. My dick jerks. I almost come.


“Mmm…” she hums around my cock, taking the length down her throat, just like the girls in my videos. I forget to be embarrassed. I forget I need a shower. Everything slips away except the juicy warmth of her mouth, the dance of her tongue, the unrelenting suction she applies as she bobs up and down on my shaft.

Oh my God! It’s almost too intense. I close my eyes at first, focusing on the unbelievable sensations. Soon, though, I have to look—it’s just so perfect. Rachel Zelinksy is on her knees! Sucking me like some eager Internet slut. She’s even got her hands clasped behind her back as she leans in to swallow me, as if I’d cuffed her.

Does she know what she’s doing to me? Is this part of her plan? I don’t care. I weave my fingers into her unruly hair and take over, using her mouth to get myself off. Almost immediately, she surrenders. Her lips go slack, stretching to accommodate me, and her jaw relaxes to accept my thrusts. She gags when I push deeper, but when I back off, she follows, burying her nose in my crotch. She wants this. She wants me to fuck her face as if I own her. I’ve never been surer of anything in my life.

That knowledge is the detonator. I shudder and explode, flooding her mouth with cum. Her muscles work around my cock as she swallows, triggering another burst. Poor Rachel tries hard, but she can’t keep up with me. As I pull out, semen spills out between her swollen lips to dribble down her chin. Porn-inspired, I aim my still-spurting dick at her glorious tits, painting them with streaks of white.

When I’m finally finished, I collapse to my knees and take her in my arms, smearing my own chest with cum. “Oh, Rachel…” I don’t know what to say. Thank you? I’m sorry? I just kiss her, deep and hard, hoping she’ll understand.

About Lisabet

LISABET SARAI occasionally tackles other genres, but BDSM will always be her first love. Every one of her nine novels includes some element of power exchange, while her D/s short stories range from mildly kinky to intensely perverse.

You’ll find information and excerpts from all Lisabet’s books on her website (http://www.lisabetsarai.com/books.html), along with more than fifty free stories and lots more. At her blog Beyond Romance (http://lisabetsarai.blogspot.com), she shares her philosophy and her news and hosts lots of other great authors. She’s also on Goodreads and finally, on Twitter.


  1. a nice excerpt

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  2. Thank you so much, HK, for being part of my tour.

    And you picked the perfect excerpt!

  3. I had not heard of shibari before this.


  4. This is so hawt
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    -Kristine R

  5. I love your term "vanilla relationships" boy that describes one I was in.

  6. Thank you for the wonderful excerpt. I can't wait to read more about Theo and Rachael. Thank you also for the great contest.
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  7. Thank you for the wonderful excerpt. I can't wait to read more about Theo and Rachael. Thank you also for the great contest.
    (orelukjp0 at Gmail dot com)

  8. I enjoyed the excerpt, and I can't wait to read this story.

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